I have this guy that I like and he said he really likes me to and he introduced me to his kids and family, and now he’s not talking to me on Facebook or texting me. He did say it was going too fast and then he just disappears and I wanna know if I did something wrong? He did say he still wanted to be friends and he’s emotionally unavailable.
Dear Vanishing Act,
I don’t think you did anything wrong. It sounds to me like this guy has some major baggage he’s working on and he’s just not ready to be in a relationship. He may have introduced you to his family and then panicked. He may simply not know how to keep things casual and given his disappearing act, I think you might want to consider that he’s not suitable relationship material (at least, not right now). Try not to beat yourself up too much. Things will happen when they’re meant to.
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