I want out of my marriage of 5-6 yrs but don't know how to tell her.
Without knowing more about the reasons why you want out of your marriage, the best advice I can offer you is to be compassionate. Are you sure this is what you want? If so, try to be direct but kind. If you’re debating how to tell her, I’m guessing this is going to be a surprise for her and probably very painful. Not all marriages work out, but even if you want to leave yours, you have the opportunity to do so with kindness, compassion and empathy.
Don't be shy! Say what's on your mind and get a good dose of perspective in return.