Cheated & Mistreated

Dear Amy,
If a guy cheats on you and doesn’t try to fix it or call you ever, does he care about you?

Dear Cheated,

      He may very well care about you. But his behavior suggests that he’s more with his own comfort/feelings than with yours. And while I’m all for making sure one’s own needs are met (a little selfishness is actually a good thing), being careless with other people’s feelings is a big NO in my book. I hope you’ll take this opportunity to look out for yourself and put this guy behind you.

Amy